How to Apply Meta-Model

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Meta-Model is the beginning of a scientific model of NLP. Meta-Model is a modeling results of the observations made by the founders of NLP, Richard Bandler and John Grinder, on 2 outstanding therapists, namely Virginia Satir a Family Therapist, and a Gestalt therapist Fritz Perls.

Richard Bandler and John Grinder observed carefully that the power of both the therapist is their expertise in asking questions to the Client, or rather leave a comment or follow-up questions after Client throws a statement, where comments or questions aftershocks have made the Client has more insight extensive and discovering things that might not otherwise be realized.

The philosophy of the concept of Meta-Model is believed that humans when recording reality (external world) is in the form of unified whole, but when they returned to express verbally, usually within a specific context, it is a process of disarmament of pre-existing unified whole, which is known as a process termed: Distortion, Deletion, and generalization.

In practical terms, what is disclosed a person, most likely not represent the circumstances that happened exactly, because verbal expressions which have disclosed the possibility has been castrated by the process: Distortion, Deletion, and generalization, it may be due to emotional factors in a particular context.

Techniques Meta-Model is a practical linguistic analysis to assist a person in order to re-equip a matter that may have been stripped by the process: Distortion, Deletion, and the generalization. Hence the classic NLP (Classic Code) formulated violations that may occur in a verbal expression, violations in question is likely to occur processes: Distortion, Deletion, and this generalization. Possible violations of this is followed up with a variety of questions (challenge) that aims to re-equip the things that might be "missing", "distorted", or "in-generalization", so that finally achieved re unified whole that is expected to empower Client ,

Simply put, suppose a person stated:

"Everybody hates me"

So we can imagine how miserable is concerned, because emotionally he felt no one who did not hate it. At the same time we will also soon be able to know that the statement is NOT TRUE, because there has been a generalization process unintentionally, and make the person feel helpless.

When we tried to question in more detail, with questions Meta-Model, in the style of Sleight of Mouth (SOM), for example:

"Is the front of the neighbors hate you? Does the driver in your office also hate you? "

Then chances are the answer is "No", and it turns out after we increasingly detailkan, the next question will probably say:

"Yes, actually I was not like my in-laws and brothers of my husband"

Conceivably, when a person is in emotional distress, then the fact that only a few people who do not like it can easily be generalized in a verbal expression:

"Everybody hates me"

And it is conceivable also, how to be very helpless person in question, when he really realized that there are still many people who like and love him!

In a known NLP presuppositions:

"The Map is Not the Territory"

Or simply a mental map that is contained in a person, often not in accordance with the facts (territory), which in conditions of poor emotional distress very likely occur overview mental map is much more "bad" than it actually happened.

Well, it may already be increasingly understood that the main purpose of the Meta-model technique is to make a person can improve his mental map thus approaching the territory or the real facts, and certainly expected to make a person become more empowered.

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Learn NLP, especially Meta-Model, often makes someone too preoccupied with observing violations verbal expressions of others, and do a "challenge" for the violations referred to by so excited, so that it creates an impression which is not ecologically communication.

It should be understood however that the communication should be packaged in a slick, flowing, and ecological, including the performing "challenge" to offense Meta-Model, in other words the air-Meta-Model-also requires the expertise of a very high communication arts.

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Meta-model is not only useful in a therapeutic context, but in general communication in everyday life. Meta-Model making an important communications, such a decision, to be more "clear", because it is no longer in the perceptions of each chamber communicating parties, but has presented more clearly and can be "seen" by everyone.

Conceivably when a leader asks his subordinates:

"How? Does the proposal yesterday was wrong? "

And answered:

"Alright sir!"

And we can already surmise, that the meaning of the word "right" between the two parties may be different from each other, and can even lead to making the wrong decision.

Well, congratulations to apply Meta-Model in a slick and wise!

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